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So you are going through the most difficult time of your life? You lost your parent(s) yesterday? You broke up with your partner after being in love for five years? You failed in your exam? You failed in your business? You lost your job? ____________ (fill in the blanks with your problems) Hey I am listening, I understand your pain. Please allow me to heal your pain. Trust Me Dear, repeat with me "THIS TOO WILL PASS SOON" !
Hey hey don't close this page, that will not help. Don't be mad at me thinking "Who the hell is he to understand the intensity of my problem!" I am someone who had been through the mental condition you are in, thought life would end at that point, thought only way was to suicide, but came out of it with the help of this belief "This Too Will Pass Soon" But how could I do that or how can you do that now? Let me give you some ways-
1. By Accepting What is Inevitable: If you are going through some challenges which is inevitable, accept it. Like death of parents, physical illness, accidents. And have faith that you can still live your best life.
You can't bring back your parents, but what you can, is do something which would have made your parents proud. They are watching you from the star, do you want them to see you sad like this? I bet no! Cheer up my friend.
Same for physical illness or accidents. You can't change what already happened to you. But what you are going to do with your future is completely in your hand.
2. Knowing Other People had been through All These: Ask yourself "Am I the only one who has gone through this pain?" I bet no. There are many people who had gone through similar pain or worse, but didn't give up on life.And let me give you name of all those people who lost their parents from the day they was born, but still they didn't gave up and lived their best life, wanna have some name? Julias Caesar, Leo Tolstoy, John Keats, Nelson Mandela, Steve Jobs,Aristotle, Bill Clinton, Marylin Monroe, William Wordsworth Read More
If you are suffering from some physical illness, have faith that you will recover soon. Read this to see how many people with some disorder made mark to the society.
And if you think you can't never fulfil your dreams because you had an accidents, you have never heard of Janine Shepherd (Follow Her on Twitter) and Morris Goodman
Janine's story reads like the plot of a Hollywood movie. A champion cross country skier in training for the Winter Olympics, her life was irrevocably altered when she was run over by a truck during a training bicycle ride to the Blue Mountains. Her neck and back were broken in six places, and her right arm, collarbone and five ribs fractured. Her right leg had been ripped open; she had sustained head injuries and massive internal injuries. She had severe lacerations to her abdominal area and had lost five litres of blood. The bleeding alone was enough to kill her ...more
His injuries were horrific. Morris’ neck was broken in two places, his diaphragm was destroyed, and he couldn’t breathe. His swallowing reflex was destroyed, and he couldn’t eat or drink.
If they could survived the pain, why can't you. Trust me you can my friend.
3. Trusting "Whatever Happens, Happens for Good": Sometimes unexpected happens in our life. Like Break up with your partner, failure in your initiative. And we start fighting with the situation. And become more and more depressed. Wait! Don't fight. Trust me I have encountered many unexpected situations in my life. At that moment I thought with much pain "Why the hell this is all happening to me" Thought myself as the most unlucky person in the universe. Blamed God a lot for giving me so much pain. But strangely after some time, I thanked God for the same incident! Because time made me realise, either that situation opened a new better opportunity for me, or I learned a great lesson from that experience.
So next time you encounter something unexpected, accept it with a smile, having trust in God/universe, wait for something better coming or learn the lesson.
My friend always remember, good times and bad times both are inevitable and necessary parts of our life. If there was no darkness, how could we give value to light? If we didn't knew what it feels to be sad, how can we cherish our happy moments? One of the greatest lesson of our life, which sometimes we refuse to learn is Neither Good Times nor Bad Times last too long. It's exactly same like Day and Night. We should learn to accept it. In Good times, live your life fullest, be grateful to God. And in bad times? Just have faith and wait for the new rays of hope.
About the Author: Sourav Ghosh is founder of Your Dream Movement. He is one of the most inspiring youngest Leader of India based Network Marketing Company eBIZ.com Pvt. Ltd.(www.ebizelindia.com), inspiring many people specially youth from every classes of the society, to live their best life. He has a strong online presence too, inspiring many lives all around the world. He is a Dreamer,Innovator...A Good Human Being...overall. Connect with him at www.souravghosh.com through Google Friend Connect. You can follow him on Twitter, Facebook, Orkut,Myspace,LinkedIn.
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