Stand Still at the face of Storm

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How many have you faced the similar situation like, someone shouted in anger to you and your replied back, and then he replied again, and ... battle goes on. And at the end who wins? Both of you loose my friend.

May be in highly reactive mood, under uncontrollable anger you uttered some words to the other person which actually you didn't mean to. But those words may create miles of distance between your friends or family.

Once I used to face such kind of problem in my relationships. But one day I read a book "The Saint, The Surfer and The CEO" by Robin Sharma... found one wonderful line "Stop Dancing"

What a powerful concept! If one become silent, how long the other can continue shouting? Another bonus for you -by remaining silent you are doing justice to your mental and physical health. You know what I mean, you know how bad it feels to have disturbed mind, catching breath, headache, high blood pressure, insomania after a fight.

Learn to be like water. It never fights its obstacles, but make ways avoiding it.

Try it today. You will definitely be more happy. I promise...

• Next time your parents/kids/spouse/friends/anybody shouts at you, please for god's sake remain silent... you will gain nothing by winnng "who shouts louder? contest" but I promise you will not loose your loved ones by remaining silent.
• When someone on the way shouts at you, before opening your mouth to reply pause for one moment...does he really matter in your life? Does it worth indulging and winning the fight at the cost of loosing your peace of mind?

If you see fire, what will you do? Pour some fuel? Obviously not! You will use water or fire extinguisher. Then why do you react in anger providing fuel to someone who is already angry.
If you still think "Suppressing my emotion is acting, pretending...why should I do it?" My answer is " Because you love Yourself, your family, your friends"
I will love to hear from you about your experience.


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About the Author: Sourav Ghosh is founder of Your Dream Movement. He is one of the most inspiring youngest Leader of India based Network Marketing Company eBIZ.com Pvt. Ltd.(www.ebizelindia.com), inspiring many people specially youth from every classes of the society, to live their best life. He has a strong online presence too, inspiring many lives all around the world. He is a Dreamer,Innovator...A Good Human Being...overall. Connect with him at www.souravghosh.com through Google Friend Connect. You can follow him on Twitter,Facebook, Orkut,Myspace,LinkedIn.

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