
Who don't want to write the story of their own life? Who don't want to fullfill their every dreams? Everybody does. Above all Everybody dreams of BEING HAPPY always! From long I always searched for the secret of being HAPPY...and atlast I found!!!
Ask yourself, you already know how much our emotion affect our daily lives. You must have encountered situations like below:
- If we are feeling sad or depressed nothing seems to be alright. Everything goes on opposite to what we expected, making us more sad or depressed.
- When we are in bad mood, everybody around us seems to be in bad mood too.
- Listening to our favorite music, when we feel good, everything seems to be alright.
I was also suffering from Negative Emotions like Fear, Sorrow, Anger like most of you... It was becoming the biggest barrier between me and my SUCCESS and HAPPINESS both. I was desperate searching for some remedy.
Suddenly one night, when someone very close to me, said something so terrible that I never expected from even my enemy, I was on the verge of bursting with anger and tear... something strange happened...Anger suddenly vanished, tears dried and I couldn't believe--- I SMILED!!!
In a spark, I realize may be one of the greatest wisdom
Our EMOTIONS are not reaction, we can CHOOSE our emotion in any circumstances.
May be you are thinking "It is easy said than done" I agree. But tell me was it easier to suffer from our negative emotions?
We express specific emotions at specific circumstances because that's how we are conditioned from our childhood. We are programmed to smile and feel good when we are happy, and cry and feel bad when we are sad. But the GOOD NEWS is we can reprogramme ourselves.
We can practice FEELING GOOD always...remember it's a choice.
Just read some wonderful lines in a great book The Greatest Salesman in The World by Og Mandino.
"Weak is he who permits his thoughts to control his actions, strong is he who forces his actions to control his thoughts"
Each day practice these self-talk:
"If I feel depressed, I will sing.
If I feel sad, I will lough.
If I feel ill, I will double my labour.
If I feel fear, I will plunge ahead.
If I feel inferior, I will wear new garments.
If I feel certain, I will raise my voice.
If I feel poverty, I will think of wealth to come.
If I feel incompetent, I will remember past success.
If I feel insignificant, I will remember my goals.
Today I will be master of my emotions. "
We need to learn to control our emotion too...
"If I become overconfident, I will recall my failures.
If I overindulge, I will think of past hungers.
If I feel complacency, I will remember my competition.
If I enjoy moment of greatness, I will remember moments of shame.
If I feel all-powerful, I will try to stop the wind.
If I attain great wealth, I will remember one unfed mouth.
If I become overly proud, I will remember a moment of weakness.
If I feel my skill is unmatched, I will look at the stars.
Today I will be master of my emotions."
If you read the book The Secret or watch the movie The Secret , you can understand more about how by controlling emotion, we can control our life.
Have you seen the movie Pursuit of Happiness ? Truly said "You can never have happiness, but it only can pursued"
Ok...now my last words Happiness is not a destination, it's a way of life.
Wish you a very HAPPY life.
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About the Author: Sourav Ghosh is founder of Your Dream Movement. He is one of the most inspiring youngest Leader of India based Network Marketing Company eBIZ.com Pvt. Ltd.(www.ebizelindia.com), inspiring many people specially youth from every classes of the society, to live their best life. He has a strong online presence too, inspiring many lives all around the world. He is a Dreamer,Innovator...A Good Human Being...overall. Connect with him at www.souravghosh.com through Google Friend Connect. You can follow him on Twitter,Facebook, Orkut,Myspace,LinkedIn.
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